March 16th, 2010
I mean easy to try, just not complicated. Any advice/tips would be very much appreciated.
Here’s my story:
I smoked a pack a day for four years, when I was in my twenties. I began going out with a fellow I’d known from before I started to smoke. He’d always been a non-smoker.
He didn’t criticize me or urge me to quit, but he didn’t jump to light my cigarettes for me either. Looking back on it, I can see that he often took me on walks, to movies, and to other places where nobody smoked, rather than to clubs and restaurants (where people could still smoke back then).
After a few months, we got married. He lived in another city, so I left my job and moved to his home. Here’s where the going got a little tougher, but what helped was that all the usual triggers and cues that it was time to light up another cigarette were gone. No coffee breaks at work, no ash trays around the house, no other people smoking, etc. It took a month or so for the desire to smoke to wear off, but right away I liked that when I blew my nose, I didn’t see brown gunk. Pretty soon my clothes didn’t smell like smoke, and neither did my breath.
I confess that I did accept an occasional cigarette from my next-door neighbor, but my new husband pointed out that I’d nearly succeeded in quitting, so why run the risk of a relapse?
You do have to watch out for a sudden urge to smoke, even long after you’ve quit. One of my co-worker’s father died of lung cancer. Her mother had already died of the same disease, and all of the family still smoked. We worked for a small local company, so the boss released us all to attend the funeral. Afterward, a number of people, feeling quite upset, pulled out their cigarettes. They politely offered them around, and I tell you I was within an ace of accepting one until sanity prevailed.
The main keys to my experience: Spend your time with non-smokers if at all possible. Change as many things as you can in your life that trigger the desire to light up. Get rid of all your cigarettes and put away your ash trays.
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